If you enjoy being with somebody, you would like to enjoy…
““If you enjoy being with somebody, you would like to enjoy it more and more. If you enjoy the intimacy, you would like to explore the intimacy more and more. And there are a few flowers of love that bloom only after long intimacies. There are seasonal flowers, too; within six weeks they are there, in the sun, but within six weeks again they are gone forever. There are flowers that take years to come, and there are flowers that take many years to come. The longer it takes, the deeper it goes. But it has to be a commitment from one heart to another heart. It has not even to be verbalized, because to verbalize it is to profane it. It has to be a silent commitment; eye to eye, heart to heart, being to being. It has to be understood, not said. Forget relationships and learn how to relate. Once””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Deep, lasting intimacy develops slowly and often silently, requiring commitment beyond words.
In simple terms: Love grows slowly and silently.
Invest in long‑term, wordless commitment.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- long‑term relationships
- marriage
- close friendships
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you convey commitment without words?
- What signals replace verbal promises?
Some may view silence as lack of communication, risking misunderstanding.