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“You seem to forget that I am married, and the one charm of marriage is that it makes a life of deception absolutely necessary for both parties. I never know where my wife is, and my wife never knows what I am doing. When we meet—we do meet occasionally, when we dine out together, or go down to the…” quote by Oscar Wilde
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““You seem to forget that I am married, and the one charm of marriage is that it makes a life of deception absolutely necessary for both parties. I never know where my wife is, and my wife never knows what I am doing. When we meet—we do meet occasionally, when we dine out together, or go down to the Duke's—we tell each other the most absurd stories with the most serious faces.””

Oscar Wilde

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Marriage forces both partners into a mutual deception, leading to absurd yet serious storytelling.

In simple terms: Marriage requires deceit, creating absurd serious stories.

Key Takeaway

Recognize the role of honesty in relationships.

Themes

marriage deception social norms humor truth

Mood

witty critical

Type

satirical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • wedding vows
  • daily couple interactions
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

social satire psychology communication

Questions to Reflect On

  • Is deception inevitable in marriage?
  • How can couples maintain honesty?
A Different Perspective

Deception can erode trust and authenticity.

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