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“Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. And unselfishness is letting other people's lives alone, not interfering with them. Selfishness always aims at creating around it an absolute uniformity of type. Unselfishness recognises infinite…” quote by Oscar Wilde
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““Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. And unselfishness is letting other people's lives alone, not interfering with them. Selfishness always aims at creating around it an absolute uniformity of type. Unselfishness recognises infinite variety of type as a delightful thing, accepts it, acquiesces in it, enjoys it.””

Oscar Wilde

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Selfishness imposes one’s desires on others, while unselfishness celebrates diverse individuality and non‑interference

In simple terms: Selfishness forces uniformity; unselfishness embraces variety

Key Takeaway

Respect others’ freedom and differences

Themes

ethics individualism social philosophy

Mood

thoughtful critical

Type

philosophical ethical

When to use this quote

  • teamwork
  • community building
  • personal relationships
  • policy making

Key Concepts

autonomy diversity non‑interference

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does true unselfishness look like?
  • How can societies honor infinite variety?
A Different Perspective

Balancing personal desire with collective harmony can be challenging

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