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“If a friend of mine gave a feast, and did not invite me to it, I should not mind a bit. But if a friend of mine had a sorrow and refused to allow me to share it, I should feel it most bitterly.” quote by Oscar Wilde
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“If a friend of mine gave a feast, and did not invite me to it, I should not mind a bit. But if a friend of mine had a sorrow and refused to allow me to share it, I should feel it most bitterly.”

Oscar Wilde

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

True friendship shares sorrow, not just feast; empathy is shown by sharing grief.

In simple terms: Friendship is tested in sorrow.

Key Takeaway

Offer support in hard times.

Themes

friendship empathy solidarity

Mood

compassionate thoughtful

Type

ethical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • moral philosophy

Key Concepts

shared grief social duty

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you respond when a friend is grieving?
  • What does sharing grief reveal about you?
A Different Perspective

Some may avoid sharing sorrow due to discomfort.

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