I have promised to dine at White's, but it is only with an…
““I have promised to dine at White's, but it is only with an old friend, so I can send him a wire to say that I am ill, or that I am prevented from coming in consequence of a subsequent engagement. I think that would be a rather nice excuse: it would have all the surprise of candour.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
A witty suggestion to use a polite excuse, preserving honesty while avoiding an unwanted social obligation.
In simple terms: Use a courteous excuse to decline without lying.
Key Takeaway
Offer a believable reason to decline gracefully.
Themes
social etiquette
honesty
humor
Mood
lighthearted
playful
reflective
Type
aphilosophical
humorous
When to use this quote
- declining invitations
- avoiding awkward events
- maintaining friendships
- managing expectations
Key Concepts
Politeness
social avoidance
strategic honesty
Questions to Reflect On
- Is it better to be blunt or use a polite excuse?
- How does humor affect social discomfort?
A Different Perspective
May be seen as insincere if overused.