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“Do you think that I would not have let you know that, if you suffered, I was suffering too: that if you wept there were tears in my eyes also: and that if you lay in the house of bondage and were despised of men, I out of my griefs had built a house in which to dwell until your coming, a treasury…” quote by Oscar Wilde
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““Do you think that I would not have let you know that, if you suffered, I was suffering too: that if you wept there were tears in my eyes also: and that if you lay in the house of bondage and were despised of men, I out of my griefs had built a house in which to dwell until your coming, a treasury in which all that man had denied to you would be laid up for your healing, one hundredfold in increase?””

Oscar Wilde

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A compassionate heart creates a sanctuary for others’ suffering, turning personal grief into a shared healing space.

In simple terms: Compassion turns personal grief into a place for others to heal.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate compassionate empathy.

Themes

compassion healing empathy selflessness

Mood

empathetic hopeful

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • counseling
  • support groups
  • friendship crises
  • caregiving

Key Concepts

literature psychology spirituality

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you balance personal limits with compassion?
  • What does a “treasury” of healing look like in daily life?
A Different Perspective

Idealized; may not reflect realistic boundaries.

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