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“Most guys arrived here normal, and they were shocked and sickened by the behavior of the guys who'd been here a while. Then within a few weeks, they'd stop being shocked, and within a few months a lot of them joined the club of the crazies. And most of them, I think, went home and became normal…” quote by Nelson DeMille
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““Most guys arrived here normal, and they were shocked and sickened by the behavior of the guys who'd been here a while. Then within a few weeks, they'd stop being shocked, and within a few months a lot of them joined the club of the crazies. And most of them, I think, went home and became normal again, though some didn't. But I never once saw anyone here who had gone around the bend ever return to normal while they were still here. It only got worse because in this environment they'd lost any sense of. . . humanity. Or you could be nice and say they'd become desensitized. It was actually more frightening than sickening. A guy who'd sliced off the ear of a VC he'd killed that morning would be joking with the village kids and the old Mama-sans that afternoon and handing out candy. I mean, they weren't evil or psychotic, we were normal, which is was really scared the hell out of me.””

Nelson DeMille

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

He recounts how prolonged exposure to violence desensitizes people, eroding humanity and normalcy.

In simple terms: Violence erodes empathy, turning people into hardened survivors.

Key Takeaway

Maintain humanity by fostering empathy and critical reflection.

Themes

violence desensitization humanity psychology survival

Mood

grim introspective

Type

literary observational

When to use this quote

  • military training
  • prison environments
  • conflict zones
  • media consumption

Key Concepts

psychological impact social decay moral erosion

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does prolonged violence affect moral judgment?
  • What safeguards can preserve humanity in harsh environments?
A Different Perspective

Recovery of empathy may be slow and uneven.

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