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“If I had a girl I should say to her, 'Marry for love if you can, it won't last, but it is a very interesting experience and makes a good beginning in life. Later on, when you marry for money, for heaven's sake let it be big money. There are no other possible reasons for marrying at all.” quote by Nancy Mitford
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“If I had a girl I should say to her, 'Marry for love if you can, it won't last, but it is a very interesting experience and makes a good beginning in life. Later on, when you marry for money, for heaven's sake let it be big money. There are no other possible reasons for marrying at all.”

Nancy Mitford

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Marriage should prioritize love for personal growth; marrying for money is acceptable only if wealth is substantial.

In simple terms: Love first, money later if abundant.

Key Takeaway

Seek love, consider wealth wisely.

Themes

love marriage financial security

Mood

reflective cautious

Type

philosophical advice

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • long‑term relationships
  • family planning

Key Concepts

Romantic idealism pragmatic partnership

Questions to Reflect On

  • Is love enough without security?
  • When is wealth a justified marriage motive?
A Different Perspective

Prioritizing wealth can erode emotional intimacy.

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