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Do women dress for men or women? I’ve always wondered why…

“Do women dress for men or women? I’ve always wondered why that eternally provocative question is put in terms of approval - as if the heart of the matter, the answer, were indeed a question of approval by either sex. But the question is never satisfactorily answered because it is incorrectly…” quote by Nancy Friday
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“Do women dress for men or women? I’ve always wondered why that eternally provocative question is put in terms of approval - as if the heart of the matter, the answer, were indeed a question of approval by either sex. But the question is never satisfactorily answered because it is incorrectly posed. It’s disapproval, the fear of it, that motivates most women, and with disapproval it doesn’t matter where it comes from.”

Nancy Friday

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This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The question of who women dress for is misframed; it’s driven by fear of disapproval, not approval.

In simple terms: Dress motives are about fear, not approval.

Key Takeaway

Examine underlying motivations.

Themes

gender fashion psychology

Mood

critical contemplative

Type

sociological inquisitive

When to use this quote

  • marketing
  • personal identity
  • media analysis

Key Concepts

approval disapproval social pressure

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why does disapproval dominate fashion choices?
  • How can we reframe the question?
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