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If one wants another only for some self-satisfaction…

“If one wants another only for some self-satisfaction, usually in the form of sensual pleasure, that wrong desire takes the form of lust rather than love.” quote by Mortimer Adler
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“If one wants another only for some self-satisfaction, usually in the form of sensual pleasure, that wrong desire takes the form of lust rather than love.”

Mortimer Adler

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Desiring others solely for personal pleasure is lust, not love, because it seeks self-gratification rather than genuine connection.

In simple terms: Lust is selfish desire; love is selfless.

Key Takeaway

Seek selfless connection, not selfish gratification.

Themes

love desire ethics relationships

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical ethical

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • friendships
  • marriage
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

selfishness authenticity emotional health

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you differentiate between love and lust?
  • How does self-interest affect your relationships?
A Different Perspective

Lust can be confused with love, leading to hurt.

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