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“If you take in someone else’s poison – thinking you can cure them by sharing it – you will instead store it within you.” quote by Michael Ondaatje
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““If you take in someone else’s poison – thinking you can cure them by sharing it – you will instead store it within you.””

Michael Ondaatje

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Absorbing others' pain in an attempt to help can internalize that pain, harming oneself.

In simple terms: Helping by taking on others' hurt can poison you.

Key Takeaway

Guard your emotional boundaries.

Themes

empathy self‑care boundaries

Mood

reflective cautious

Type

advice psychological

When to use this quote

  • counseling
  • family caregiving
  • friendship crises
  • personal healing

Key Concepts

psychological contagion emotional labor

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you protect yourself when supporting others?
  • When is it healthier to let others seek their own help?
A Different Perspective

Sharing pain may deepen your own suffering.

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