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“I am someone who has a cold heart. If I am beside a great grief I throw barriers up so the loss cannot go too deep or too far. There is a wall instantly in place, and it will not fall.” quote by Michael Ondaatje
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“I am someone who has a cold heart. If I am beside a great grief I throw barriers up so the loss cannot go too deep or too far. There is a wall instantly in place, and it will not fall.”

Michael Ondaatje

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A person builds emotional walls to protect themselves from deep grief, keeping pain at a distance.

In simple terms: People shield themselves from intense loss.

Key Takeaway

Recognize when walls hinder healing.

Themes

emotional protection grief self‑defense

Mood

reflective somber

Type

personal psychological

When to use this quote

  • relationship loss
  • personal trauma
  • mental health
  • self‑care

Key Concepts

psychology boundary setting

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do your defenses affect intimacy?
  • What could you gain by allowing vulnerability?
A Different Perspective

Such barriers can also isolate and prevent support.

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