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“...You want to know whether the problems that you teenagers feel—will they follow you over the rest of your lives? Will your hearts always be aching? Is that what you are asking me?” Goodman shifted in discomfort. “Something like that,” he said. “Yes,” said the counselor in a suddenly plangent…” quote by Meg Wolitzer
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““...You want to know whether the problems that you teenagers feel—will they follow you over the rest of your lives? Will your hearts always be aching? Is that what you are asking me?” Goodman shifted in discomfort. “Something like that,” he said. “Yes,” said the counselor in a suddenly plangent voice. “Always they will be aching. I wish I could tell you something else, but I wouldn’t be telling the truth. My wise and gentle friends, this is the way it will be from now on.” No one could say anything. “We are so, so fucked,” Jules finally said...””

Meg Wolitzer

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A counselor acknowledges that teenage pain persists lifelong, offering stark honesty about ongoing emotional ache.

In simple terms: Teenage pain often continues into adulthood.

Key Takeaway

Accept that some pain endures.

Themes

adolescence pain truth acceptance

Mood

somber introspective

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • parental guidance
  • self-help literature

Key Concepts

psychology lifelong emotional patterns

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you cope with persistent emotional ache?
  • Can honesty about pain foster resilience?
A Different Perspective

Denial may hinder healing.

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