I don't know if I continue, even today, always liking…
“I don't know if I continue, even today, always liking myself. But what I learned to do many years ago was to forgive myself. It is very important for every human being to forgive herself or himself because if you live, you will make mistakes- it is inevitable. But once you do and you see the mistake, then you forgive yourself and say, 'well, if I'd known better I'd have done better,' that's all. So you say to people who you think you may have injured, 'I'm sorry,' and then you say to yourself, 'I'm sorry.' If we all hold on to the mistake, we can't see our own glory in the mirror because we have the mistake between our faces and the mirror; we can't see what we're capable of being. You can ask forgiveness of others, but in the end the real forgiveness is in one's own self. I think that young men and women are so caught by the way they see themselves. Now mind you. When a larger society sees them as unattractive, as threats, as too black or too white or too poor or too fat or too thin o”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Self‑forgiveness is essential; acknowledging mistakes, learning, and releasing self‑judgment to grow.
In simple terms: Forgiving yourself lets you move past errors and see your potential.
Practice self‑compassion and apologize to yourself.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- personal journaling
- coaching workshops
- daily reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you cultivate self‑compassion daily?
- What steps help you let go of past mistakes?
Self‑forgiveness can be hard when external criticism is harsh.