Skip to content

When Death Comes When death comes like the hungry bear in…

“When Death Comes When death comes like the hungry bear in autumn; when death comes and takes all the bright coins from his purse to buy me, and snaps the purse shut; when death comes like the measle-pox when death comes like an iceberg between the shoulder blades, I want to step through the door…” quote by Mary Oliver
Download Open image
““When Death Comes When death comes like the hungry bear in autumn; when death comes and takes all the bright coins from his purse to buy me, and snaps the purse shut; when death comes like the measle-pox when death comes like an iceberg between the shoulder blades, I want to step through the door full of curiosity, wondering: what is it going to be like, that cottage of darkness? And therefore I look upon everything as a brotherhood and a sisterhood, and I look upon time as no more than an idea, and I consider eternity as another possibility, and I think of each life as a flower, as common as a field daisy, and as singular, and each name a comfortable music in the mouth, tending, as all music does, toward silence, and each body a lion of courage, and something precious to the earth. When it's over, I want to say all my life I was a bride married to amazement. I was the bridegroom, taking the world into my arms. When it's over, I don't want to wonder if I have made of my life something particular, and real. I don't want to find myself sighing and frightened, or full of argument. I don't want to end up simply having visited this world””

Mary Oliver

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The poet embraces death with curiosity, seeing life as a shared, fleeting experience, and wishes to meet the end without regret or fear.

In simple terms: Face death curiously, cherish life as a shared journey.

Key Takeaway

Live fully, accept mortality without fear.

Themes

mortality curiosity shared humanity acceptance beauty

Mood

contemplative hopeful melancholic

Type

poetic philosophical

When to use this quote

  • end‑of‑life reflections
  • creative writing
  • personal meditation
  • philosophical discourse

Key Concepts

existentialism transcendence impermanence

Questions to Reflect On

  • How would you greet death if you could?
  • What does seeing life as a brotherhood change your actions?
A Different Perspective

Life’s brevity may still bring anxiety and doubt about meaning.

★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet

More by Mary Oliver

Explore all 470 Mary Oliver quotes

More Death quotes

Browse all 39,127 Death quotes