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“Sexual performance problems, such as impotence and frigidity, are 70 to 90 percent changeable. But a homosexual who wants to be a heterosexual - that's close to unchangeable. And a transsexual - say a man who believes he's really a woman in a man's body - is completely unchangeable; you'd have to…” quote by Martin Seligman
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“Sexual performance problems, such as impotence and frigidity, are 70 to 90 percent changeable. But a homosexual who wants to be a heterosexual - that's close to unchangeable. And a transsexual - say a man who believes he's really a woman in a man's body - is completely unchangeable; you'd have to change the body to conform to the psyche.”

Martin Seligman

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Sexual orientation is largely immutable; attempts to change it are ineffective, unlike some performance issues.

In simple terms: Sexual orientation cannot be changed; performance can be improved.

Key Takeaway

Respect identity, focus on realistic goals.

Themes

identity sexuality psychology changeability health

Mood

thoughtful serious empathetic

Type

educational ethical

When to use this quote

  • counseling sessions
  • medical consultations
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

orientation psychological flexibility biological determinants

Questions to Reflect On

  • What ethical responsibilities do clinicians have?
  • How can we support individuals without trying to change orientation?
A Different Perspective

Changing orientation is ethically controversial and often harmful.

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