If we hesitate to answer when you ask us a question, we…
““If we hesitate to answer when you ask us a question, we are NOT thinking of an excuse or making up lies; we are simply trying to find the words to describe what we are feeling. We don't think in logic, we think in feelings and symbols – those are sometimes difficult to find words for.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
We often delay answering because we need to translate emotions into words, not because we are lying or making excuses.
In simple terms: We need time to find words for feelings.
Allow space for feeling before demanding answers.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal conversations
- therapy sessions
- conflict resolution
- creative brainstorming
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we improve expressing feelings?
- When is silence more honest than words?
If emotions are too complex, words may still fall short, leading to misunderstanding.