They say an infant can't see when it is as young as your…
““They say an infant can't see when it is as young as your sister was, but she opened her eyes, and she looked at me. She was such a little bit of a thing. But while I was holding her, she opened her eyes. I know she didn't really study my face. Memory can make a thing seem to have been much more than it was. But I know she did look right into my eyes. That is something. And I'm glad I knew it at the time, because now, in my present situation, not that I am about to leave this world, I realize there is nothing more astonishing than a human face...You feel your obligation to a child when you have seen it and held it. Any human face is a claim on you, because you can't help but understand the singularity of it, the courage and loneliness of it. But this is truest of the face of an infant. I consider that to be one kind of vision, as mystical as any.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
The quote reflects on the profound, almost mystical impact of seeing an infant’s face, suggesting that such a moment creates an enduring sense of responsibility and deep emotional connection that transcends ordinary perception.
In simple terms: Seeing a baby’s face creates a lasting, deep sense of responsibility.
Recognize and honor the deep bond formed by seeing a child’s face.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- parenting
- caregiving
- first encounters with newborns
- reflective moments on loss
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does witnessing a newborn’s face alter your sense of duty?
- In what ways can this feeling be sustained later in life?
The intensity of this feeling may fade over time or be challenged by distance and changing relationships.