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“Marie-Louise Mallet emphasizes the decreased control over the experience of listening as opposed to looking: To look is to choose one’s point of view. [ . . . ] To listen is to be “touched” without ever being able to touch what touches us, without being able to seize or retain it. [ . . . ] It is…” quote by Marie-Louise Mallet
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““Marie-Louise Mallet emphasizes the decreased control over the experience of listening as opposed to looking: To look is to choose one’s point of view. [ . . . ] To listen is to be “touched” without ever being able to touch what touches us, without being able to seize or retain it. [ . . . ] It is to hear what one listens to take its distance, lose itself like a fleeting echo. To listen is to not be able to maintain, to keep present. It is not being able to retain. It’s to not be able to come back. [ . . . ] What has been heard will be kept only in memory, that is, kept as lost, without ever assuring that we have heard well, without being able to reassure ourselves.””

Marie-Louise Mallet

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This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Listening is a passive reception that cannot be retained, unlike looking which chooses a viewpoint.

In simple terms: Listening receives without retaining, unlike active looking.

Key Takeaway

Practice active listening and note taking.

Themes

listening perception memory attention silence

Mood

contemplative analytical reflective

Type

Communication:1 Listening:1 Literature:0 Memory:0 Music:0 Point of view:0 Sound:0 Time:0 Vision:0 Experience Listening:0 Retain Hear:0 Listen Touched:0 Heard Kept:0 Mallet Emphasizes:0

When to use this quote

  • education
  • therapy
  • music
  • conversation
  • research

Key Concepts

ephemeral experience subjective viewpoint cognitive limits

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you transform listening into active understanding?
  • What tools help retain auditory information?
A Different Perspective

Listening cannot replace active engagement.

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