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“The technique of a great seducer requires a facility and an indifference in passing from one object of affection to another which I could never have; however that may be, my loves have left me more often than I have left them, for I have never been able to understand how one could have enough of…” quote by Marguerite Yourcenar
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“The technique of a great seducer requires a facility and an indifference in passing from one object of affection to another which I could never have; however that may be, my loves have left me more often than I have left them, for I have never been able to understand how one could have enough of any beloved. The desire to count up exactly the riches which each new love brings us, and to see it change, and perhaps watch it grow old, accords ill with multiplicity of conquests.”

Marguerite Yourcenar

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A lover who constantly seeks new romances cannot truly appreciate any single love, as the desire to quantify affection undermines depth.

In simple terms: Counting love limits its depth.

Key Takeaway

Value depth over quantity.

Themes

love desire attachment impermanence

Mood

reflective melancholic

Type

philosophical literary

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • personal growth
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

philosophy psychology human nature

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does counting love affect intimacy?
  • Can one truly love many?
A Different Perspective

Depth cannot be measured by number of lovers.

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