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“In some families, please is described as the magic word. In our house, however, it was sorry.” quote by Margaret Laurence
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“In some families, please is described as the magic word. In our house, however, it was sorry.”

Margaret Laurence

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

In some families, “please” is the polite word, but in ours “sorry” was the default, showing how language reflects values.

In simple terms: Family language shows values.

Key Takeaway

Notice how words shape family norms.

Themes

family dynamics language politeness apology

Mood

reflective nostalgic

Type

cultural philosophical

When to use this quote

  • family gatherings
  • parenting
  • conflict resolution
  • teaching manners

Key Concepts

sociolinguistics cultural norms

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does your family’s default word affect you?
  • What alternative words could shift the dynamic?
A Different Perspective

Over‑reliance on apology can undermine confidence.

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