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Joliffe, watching him over the rim of his own bowl, felt…

“Joliffe, watching him over the rim of his own bowl, felt for his discontent. In his own life there were other things he could have been besides a player---several other things he had been besides a player--but at least he had had choices and made them. He doubted this fellow had ever seen anything…” quote by Margaret Frazer
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““Joliffe, watching him over the rim of his own bowl, felt for his discontent. In his own life there were other things he could have been besides a player---several other things he had been besides a player--but at least he had had choices and made them. He doubted this fellow had ever seen anything else to be but what he was. Or else he had refused other choices if they ever came. but staying with what you were born to was a choice, too, and the one that most people made--a choice that Joliffe could have made, too, upon a time, but had not and of that he was still glad.””

Margaret Frazer

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Joliffe reflects on the freedom of choice versus the constraints of identity, recognizing that staying in an assigned role is also a decision.

In simple terms: Choices shape identity; staying put is also a choice.

Key Takeaway

Recognize all your options and own them.

Themes

choice identity freedom regret self‑determination

Mood

contemplative melancholic

Type

philosophical narrative

When to use this quote

  • career decisions
  • personal growth
  • relationship choices
  • creative pursuits

Key Concepts

existentialism agency determinism

Questions to Reflect On

  • What choices have you ignored?
  • How does accepting a role affect your sense of self?
A Different Perspective

Life often limits options, making true freedom hard to achieve.

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