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“Lay down this rule of friendship: neither ask nor consent to do what is wrong. The plea, 'for friendship's sake,' is a discreditable one, and should not be admitted for a moment. We should ask from friends and do for friends only what is good.” quote by Marcus Tullius Cicero
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“Lay down this rule of friendship: neither ask nor consent to do what is wrong. The plea, 'for friendship's sake,' is a discreditable one, and should not be admitted for a moment. We should ask from friends and do for friends only what is good.”

Marcus Tullius Cicero

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Friendship should be based on mutual goodness, not on enabling wrongdoing.

In simple terms: Only good deeds belong in true friendship.

Key Takeaway

Seek and offer only virtuous actions.

Themes

friendship ethics integrity

Mood

thoughtful serious

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • advicegiving
  • conflict resolution
  • personal boundaries

Key Concepts

virtue moral responsibility

Questions to Reflect On

  • What actions truly reflect a good friend?
  • How do you handle a friend’s request that feels wrong?
A Different Perspective

People may argue that loyalty sometimes requires compromise.

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