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“... we made much less happy by the kindness of a great writer, which strictly speaking we find only in his books, than we suffer from the hostility of a woman whom we have not chosen for her intelligence, but whom we cannot stop ourselves from loving.” quote by Marcel Proust
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“... we made much less happy by the kindness of a great writer, which strictly speaking we find only in his books, than we suffer from the hostility of a woman whom we have not chosen for her intelligence, but whom we cannot stop ourselves from loving.”

Marcel Proust

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

We may love a woman’s intellect despite not choosing her, yet her kindness makes us happier than any writer’s books.

In simple terms: Intellectual love outweighs literary pleasure.

Key Takeaway

Value intellectual connection.

Themes

love intellect choice kindness

Mood

melancholic reflective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • friendship
  • romantic relationships
  • literary critique

Key Concepts

philosophy of love psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do we love unchosen partners?
  • Can kindness outweigh intellectual mismatch?
A Different Perspective

Love can be irrational.

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