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But the second kind seek out the women who love women, who…

“But the second kind seek out the women who love women, who can procure a young man for them and add to the pleasure which they get from finding themselves with him; much more, they can, in the same way, find the same pleasure with them as with a man. [...] For in the relationships they have with…” quote by Marcel Proust
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““But the second kind seek out the women who love women, who can procure a young man for them and add to the pleasure which they get from finding themselves with him; much more, they can, in the same way, find the same pleasure with them as with a man. [...] For in the relationships they have with them, they play the role of another woman for the women who love women, and the woman offers them at the same time more or less what they find in a man, so that the jealous friend suffers from feeling that the man he loves is inseparable from the woman who is for him almost a man, at the same time as he feels him almost escaping from him, because, for these women, he is something he does not know, a sort of woman.””

Marcel Proust

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

He describes a complex relational dynamic where women seek pleasure through both male and female partners, blurring gender roles.

In simple terms: Women find pleasure with both men and women, creating ambiguous roles.

Key Takeaway

Recognize fluidity in relationships and its emotional impact.

Themes

love gender identity pleasure

Mood

thoughtful analytical

Type

philosophical literary

When to use this quote

  • exploring non‑traditional relationships
  • understanding jealousy
  • navigating identity

Key Concepts

sexual fluidity jealousy role reversal

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do gender expectations shape personal desire?
  • What emotional challenges arise from ambiguous relationship roles?
A Different Perspective

Societal norms may reject such fluid arrangements.

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