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“And indeed when we are no longer in love with women whom we meet after many years, is there not the abyss of death between them and ourselves, just as much as if they were no longer of this world, since the fact that we are no longer in love makes the people that they were or the person that we…” quote by Marcel Proust
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“And indeed when we are no longer in love with women whom we meet after many years, is there not the abyss of death between them and ourselves, just as much as if they were no longer of this world, since the fact that we are no longer in love makes the people that they were or the person that we were then as good as dead?”

Marcel Proust

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

When love fades, the former beloved feels as if they have died, and the lover feels a profound emptiness.

In simple terms: Lost love feels like death.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and process the grief of fading love.

Themes

love loss mortality identity

Mood

melancholic reflective

Type

philosophical emotional

When to use this quote

  • long-term relationships
  • breakups
  • grieving
  • self-reflection
  • renewed connections

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology memory

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you honor past love while embracing new possibilities?
  • What signs indicate you are truly ready to let go?
A Different Perspective

The metaphor may overstate emotional intensity, ignoring practical aspects of moving on.

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