I was thinking about attraction. I have this theory on it…
““I was thinking about attraction. I have this theory on it. On love." She wouldn't look at me. I swallowed, but managed, "This ought to be good." Nuala shot me a hard look. "Shut up. I don't think love has anything to do with how the other person is. I mean, maybe a little. I think what really matters is you yourself. Like, you know, let's say you lo- really liked a self-involved ass. That doesn't matter. What matters is how that ass makes you feel. If you feel like the best person in the world when you're with him, that's what makes you like him. It really isn't about how nice a person he is at all." I ran my tongue over my bottom lip. "I like it. It's like the selfish person's guide to love. It's not you, baby, it's me I'm in love with.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Love is judged by how someone makes you feel, not by their moral character.
In simple terms: Feelings matter more than traits.
Key Takeaway
Prioritize emotional impact over moral judgments.
Themes
love
self‑perception
subjectivity
Mood
introspective
conflicted
Type
philosophical
conversational
When to use this quote
- dating
- self‑reflection
- relationship counseling
- personal growth
Key Concepts
emotional resonance
self‑centered love
perception
relationship dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- What feelings do you seek in a partner?
- How do you balance personal happiness with respecting others?
A Different Perspective
It ignores the importance of mutual respect and shared values.