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“Often our good deeds make enemies for us, and the ungrateful person despises us on two counts; for he is not only unwilling to acknowledge the gratitude he owes us: he does not want to have his benefactor as witness to his thankless behavior.” quote by Madeleine de Souvre, marquise de Sable
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“Often our good deeds make enemies for us, and the ungrateful person despises us on two counts; for he is not only unwilling to acknowledge the gratitude he owes us: he does not want to have his benefactor as witness to his thankless behavior.”

Madeleine de Souvre, marquise de Sable

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Good deeds can attract resentment from those who refuse to acknowledge gratitude, leading them to reject the benefactor’s presence.

In simple terms: Kindness may create enemies when ungrateful people deny thanks.

Key Takeaway

Recognize that generosity can provoke negative reactions.

Themes

generosity resentment gratitude human nature

Mood

reflective serious

Type

advice observational

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • workplace
  • community service
  • family interactions

Key Concepts

social dynamics psychology ego reciprocity

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do some people resent kindness?
  • How can you protect yourself while staying generous?
A Different Perspective

Not all recipients will appreciate help; some may feel threatened.

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