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“Talleyrand said that two things are essential in life: to give good dinners and to keep on fair terms with women. As the years pass and fires cool, it can become unimportant to stay always on fair terms either with women or one's fellows, but a wide and sensitive appreciation of fine flavours can…” quote by M. F. K. Fisher
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“Talleyrand said that two things are essential in life: to give good dinners and to keep on fair terms with women. As the years pass and fires cool, it can become unimportant to stay always on fair terms either with women or one's fellows, but a wide and sensitive appreciation of fine flavours can still abide with us, to warm our hearts.”

M. F. K. Fisher

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

She humorously cites Talleyrand’s advice on good food and fair treatment of women, noting that appreciation of flavor endures beyond fleeting relationships.

In simple terms: Good food and kindness matter more than fleeting disputes.

Key Takeaway

Value lasting pleasures over temporary conflicts.

Themes

hospitality relationships culinary arts

Mood

warm conversational

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • dinner parties
  • friendship maintenance
  • cultural gatherings

Key Concepts

social etiquette taste appreciation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does shared meals affect relationships?
  • Can culinary appreciation replace emotional intimacy?
A Different Perspective

Food may not resolve deeper relational issues.

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