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“Before I myself went to college I had never seen but one college woman. I had heard that such a woman was staying at the house of an acquaintance. I went to see her with fear. Even if she had appeared in hoofs and horns I was determined to go to college all the same. But it was a relief to find…” quote by M. Carey Thomas
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“Before I myself went to college I had never seen but one college woman. I had heard that such a woman was staying at the house of an acquaintance. I went to see her with fear. Even if she had appeared in hoofs and horns I was determined to go to college all the same. But it was a relief to find this Vassar graduate tall and handsome and dressed like other women.”

M. Carey Thomas

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

She feared the unknown of college women but overcame it, realizing they were ordinary and respectable.

In simple terms: Fear of unknown women was overcome by seeing their normalcy.

Key Takeaway

Challenge assumptions by meeting people directly.

Themes

gender education prejudice selfdiscovery

Mood

anxious relieved hopeful

Type

personal reflective inspirational

When to use this quote

  • college orientation
  • first day of classes
  • meeting new peers
  • overcoming stereotypes

Key Concepts

feminism social norms identity

Questions to Reflect On

  • What assumptions do you hold about unfamiliar groups?
  • How can personal encounters change bias?
A Different Perspective

She may have still faced systemic sexism despite personal acceptance.

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