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Physical aggression by a man toward his partner is abuse…

“Physical aggression by a man toward his partner is abuse, even if it happens only once. If he raises a fist; punches a hole in the wall; throws things at you; blocks your way; restrains you; grabs, pushes, or pokes you; or threatens to hurt you, that's physical abuse. He is creating fear and using…” quote by Lundy Bancroft
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“Physical aggression by a man toward his partner is abuse, even if it happens only once. If he raises a fist; punches a hole in the wall; throws things at you; blocks your way; restrains you; grabs, pushes, or pokes you; or threatens to hurt you, that's physical abuse. He is creating fear and using your need for physical freedom and safety as a way to control you.”

Lundy Bancroft

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Any act of physical aggression, even a single incident, is abuse because it creates fear and seeks control over a partner’s safety and freedom.

In simple terms: Physical aggression is abuse.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and reject any physical aggression.

Themes

abuse control fear

Mood

alert concerned

Type

warning educational

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • legal contexts
  • support services
  • personal safety

Key Concepts

intimate partner violence power dynamics psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • What signs indicate a partner is being controlled?
  • How can you support someone experiencing physical aggression?
A Different Perspective

Some may argue isolated incidents are not patterns, but fear and control are present regardless of frequency.

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