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The abuser does not believe, however, that his level of…

“The abuser does not believe, however, that his level of authority over the children should be in any way connected to his actual level of effort or sacrifice on their behalf, or to how much knowledge he actually has about who they are or what is going on in their lives. He considers it his right…” quote by Lundy Bancroft Bancroft
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““The abuser does not believe, however, that his level of authority over the children should be in any way connected to his actual level of effort or sacrifice on their behalf, or to how much knowledge he actually has about who they are or what is going on in their lives. He considers it his right to make the ultimate determination of what is good for them even if he doesn’t attend to their needs or even if he only contributes to those aspects of child care that he enjoys or that make him look like a great dad in public.””

Lundy Bancroft Bancroft

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Describes how abusers claim authority over children while neglecting their true needs, seeking public approval instead.

In simple terms: Abusers misuse authority for image.

Key Takeaway

Question authority motives.

Themes

abuse authority parenting neglect public image

Mood

serious critical

Type

analysis warning

When to use this quote

  • counseling
  • legal cases
  • parental workshops
  • media analysis

Key Concepts

psychology family dynamics social perception

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does authority become abuse?
  • What safeguards protect children?
A Different Perspective

Victims may feel powerless to speak.

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