Is it possible that the reasons you had for making that…
““Is it possible that the reasons you had for making that promise to yourself don't hold true anymore? Might it be the promise to yourself that's keeping you back, more than the reasons behind the promise? And if that's the case, you mustn't think of a promise to yourself in the same way as a promise to someone else. If you're changing your mind now, that's not wrong. What would be wrong would be to deny it or run away from it. I've sat up for too many nights with you not to know you've thought it all through. You have more courage than anyone else I know. But you're more stubborn, too. It would be hard for you to admit to yourself that it's time to change your mind.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Questioning the validity of past promises and encouraging honest self‑assessment.
In simple terms: Reevaluate old promises and allow change.
Key Takeaway
Accept evolving intentions without guilt.
Themes
self‑reflection
promise
change
courage
stubbornness
Mood
thoughtful
encouraging
Type
advice
reflection
When to use this quote
- decision making
- life coaching
- therapy sessions
Key Concepts
cognitive dissonance
personal growth
Questions to Reflect On
- What promise no you hold?
- How can you honor yourself while changing?
A Different Perspective
Changing mind may be seen as inconsistency.