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Through all the muck of themselves, the times they had…

“Through all the muck of themselves, the times they had unobligated each other, the anger, the permitted absences, the loneliness grown dangerous, she had always returned to him. He'd had faith in that - abracadabra! But eventually the deadlines set in again. Could you live in the dead excellence…” quote by Lorrie Moore
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““Through all the muck of themselves, the times they had unobligated each other, the anger, the permitted absences, the loneliness grown dangerous, she had always returned to him. He'd had faith in that - abracadabra! But eventually the deadlines set in again. Could you live in the dead excellence of a thing - the stupid mortar of a body, the stubborn husk love had crawled from? Yes, he thought.””

Lorrie Moore

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A lover repeatedly returns despite hardships, but doubts arise about the authenticity of love versus mere physical presence.

In simple terms: Love persists despite flaws, yet questions its true nature.

Key Takeaway

Examine what you truly value in relationships.

Themes

love faith doubt loneliness return

Mood

melancholic reflective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • marriage
  • long‑distance relationships
  • recovering from betrayal
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

existentialism romantic idealism human frailty

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does “dead excellence” mean to you?
  • How do you balance emotional need with realistic expectations?
A Different Perspective

Love may be idealized, ignoring practical incompatibilities.

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