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There is a sort of veteran woman of condition, who, having…

“There is a sort of veteran woman of condition, who, having lived always in the grand monde, and having possibly had some gallantries, together with the experience of five and twenty or thirty years, form a young fellow better than all the rules that can be given him. Wherever you go, make some of…” quote by Lord Chesterfield
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“There is a sort of veteran woman of condition, who, having lived always in the grand monde, and having possibly had some gallantries, together with the experience of five and twenty or thirty years, form a young fellow better than all the rules that can be given him. Wherever you go, make some of those women your friends; which a very little matter will do. Ask their advice, tell them your doubts or difficulties as to your behavior; but take great care not to drop one word of their experience; for experience implies age, and the suspicion of age, no woman, let her be ever so old, ever forgives.”

Lord Chesterfield

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Seasoned women offer valuable guidance; seek their counsel and respect their experience, regardless of age.

In simple terms: Listen to experienced women for advice.

Key Takeaway

Value and heed women's wisdom.

Themes

wisdom gender mentorship respect

Mood

respectful encouraging

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • career decisions
  • personal dilemmas
  • relationship advice

Key Concepts

intergenerational learning female agency

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we better honor women's experience?
  • What barriers exist to seeking female mentorship?
A Different Perspective

Some may undervalue older women's insights.

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