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“Never yield to that temptation, which, to most young men, is very strong, of exposing other people's weaknesses and infirmities, for the sake either of diverting the company, or of showing your own superiority. You may get the laugh on your side by it for the present; but you will make enemies by…” quote by Lord Chesterfield
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“Never yield to that temptation, which, to most young men, is very strong, of exposing other people's weaknesses and infirmities, for the sake either of diverting the company, or of showing your own superiority. You may get the laugh on your side by it for the present; but you will make enemies by it for ever; and even those who laugh with you then, will, upon reflection, fear, and consequently hate you.”

Lord Chesterfield

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Exploiting others’ flaws for personal gain leads to lasting enmity, even if it yields short‑term amusement; true respect requires integrity.

In simple terms: Exploiting others harms long‑term relationships.

Key Takeaway

Choose integrity over temporary advantage.

Themes

integrity respect humility social dynamics consequence

Mood

cautionary ethical

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • workplace interactions
  • social media discourse
  • political debates

Key Concepts

ethical leadership team collaboration personal reputation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you handle the temptation to expose others?
  • What are the long‑term costs of such behavior?
A Different Perspective

May be overly moralistic.

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