Dear J., I want to explain something. After my dad set me…
““Dear J., I want to explain something. After my dad set me on fire...Well...He died in jail while I was in the hospital getting skin grafts. And I never got to tell him how much he hurt me. Not just physically, but inside, you know? So I took it out on other things for a while. I'm better now. I get counseling for it, and I'm really better. But I'm not perfect. And I'm still fighting it. See... You're like the only person I have in my life that I really care about. I'm selfish about that. I don't want anybody to touch you. I want to keep you safe. That's why I hate this assignment so much. Now that I have you, I'm afraid to see you get hurt or messed up, like I was. I'm afraid I'll lose you, I guess. I wish you could always be safe. I worry a lot. If you weren't so damned independent...Ah, well. *smile* As much as we have been through in the past few months, we still don't know each other very well, do we? I want to change that about us. Do you? I want to know you better. Know what makes you happy and what scares you. And I want you to know that about me, too. I love you. I will try to never hurt you again. I know I'll screw up. But I'll keep trying, as long as you let me. Love, Cabe””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
A heartfelt confession reveals fear of loss, protective love, and desire for deeper connection.
In simple terms: Fear of losing love drives protective behavior.
Key Takeaway
Communicate openly to strengthen bonds.
Themes
love
fear
vulnerability
Mood
vulnerable
hopeful
Type
personal
confessional
When to use this quote
- counseling
- relationship building
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
psychology
relationships
Questions to Reflect On
- What fears block your intimacy?
- How can you safely express love?
A Different Perspective
Healing may require professional help.