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“Now, bitterly, with one sweep of the front door, the compassion was spent. To the degree that Lawrence's face was familiar, it was killingly so - as if she had been gradually getting to know him for over nine years and then, bang, he was known. She'd been handed her diploma. There were no more…” quote by Lionel Shriver
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“Now, bitterly, with one sweep of the front door, the compassion was spent. To the degree that Lawrence's face was familiar, it was killingly so - as if she had been gradually getting to know him for over nine years and then, bang, he was known. She'd been handed her diploma. There were no more surprises - or only this last surprise, that there were no more surprises. To torture herself, Irina kept looking, and looking, at Lawrence's face, like turning the key in an ignition several times before resigning herself that the battery was dead.”

Lionel Shriver

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Compassion can be exhausted, leaving a person numb and resigned, as repeated exposure erodes emotional response.

In simple terms: Compassion can wear out.

Key Takeaway

Renew emotional reserves.

Themes

compassion exhaustion resignation

Mood

melancholy reflective

Type

psychological philosophical

When to use this quote

  • caregiving
  • long‑term relationships
  • therapy

Key Concepts

psychology emotional labor

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you replenish compassion?
  • What signs indicate emotional burnout?
A Different Perspective

Emotional fatigue may mask deeper issues.

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