Personal change, growth, development, identity…
“Personal change, growth, development, identity formation--these tasks that once were thought to belong to childhood and adolescence alone now are recognized as part of adult life as well. Gone is the belief that adulthood is, or ought to be, a time of internal peace and comfort, that growing pains belong only to the young; gone the belief that these are marker events--a job, a mate, a child--through which we will pass into a life of relative ease.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Adult life now includes identity work and growth, not just stability; milestones are not the only markers of progress.
In simple terms: Adults keep growing and changing.
Embrace lifelong development.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- career change
- parenting
- midlife crisis
- education pursuits
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What new identities are you forming?
- How can you support others’ growth?
Societal expectations may resist adult change.