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“You see it is important to understand how damaged people don't always know how to say yes, or to choose the big thing, even when it is right in front of them. It's a shame we carry. The shame of wanting something good. The shame of feeling something good. The shame of not believing we deserve to…” quote by Lidia Yuknavitch
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“You see it is important to understand how damaged people don't always know how to say yes, or to choose the big thing, even when it is right in front of them. It's a shame we carry. The shame of wanting something good. The shame of feeling something good. The shame of not believing we deserve to stand in the same room in the same way as all those we admire. Big red As on our chests.”

Lidia Yuknavitch

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

People often lack confidence to accept opportunities, feeling unworthy despite clear chances, leading to internalized shame.

In simple terms: Shame blocks us from saying yes to good things.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and challenge feelings of unworthiness.

Themes

self‑esteem psychology growth

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

motivational inspirational

When to use this quote

  • career advancement
  • relationships
  • creative pursuits
  • public speaking

Key Concepts

imposter syndrome self‑acceptance social comparison

Questions to Reflect On

  • What evidence contradicts your shame?
  • How might you practice self‑compassion?
A Different Perspective

Shame can be deeply rooted and resistant to quick change.

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