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“This is something I know: damaged women? We don't think we deserve kindness. IN fact, when kindness happens to us, we go a little berserk. It's threatening. Deeply. Because if I have to admit how profoundly I need kindness? I have to admit that I hid the me who deserves it down in a sadness well.” quote by Lidia Yuknavitch
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“This is something I know: damaged women? We don't think we deserve kindness. IN fact, when kindness happens to us, we go a little berserk. It's threatening. Deeply. Because if I have to admit how profoundly I need kindness? I have to admit that I hid the me who deserves it down in a sadness well.”

Lidia Yuknavitch

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

People often reject kindness because it forces them to confront deep self‑worth issues, making them feel vulnerable and threatened.

In simple terms: Kindness can feel scary when we doubt we deserve it.

Key Takeaway

Allow yourself to accept kindness without judgment.

Themes

self‑worth vulnerability kindness healing

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

motivational inspirational

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • support groups
  • personal journaling
  • friendship building

Key Concepts

psychology self‑compassion emotional safety

Questions to Reflect On

  • What beliefs block you from accepting kindness?
  • How can you practice self‑compassion daily?
A Different Perspective

Kindness may be rejected if past trauma reinforces self‑rejection.

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