If doubtful whether to end with "yours faithfully," or…
“If doubtful whether to end with "yours faithfully," or "yours truly," or "yours most truly," &c. (there are at least a dozen varieties, before you reach "yours affectionately"), refer to your correspondent's last letter, and make your winding-up at least as friendly as his: in fact, even if a shade more friendly, it will do no harm!”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Choose a closing that matches or slightly exceeds the friendliness of the recipient’s sign‑off to maintain tone harmony.
In simple terms: Match or be a bit friendlier than the other’s sign‑off.
Key Takeaway
Mirror their friendliness.
Themes
etquette
communication
tone
Mood
consider
considerate
Type
advice
practical
When to use this quote
- Business letters
- friend letters
- formal emails
- networking messages
Key Concepts
Politeness
social mirroring
Questions to Reflect On
- Is your closing too formal or too casual?
- How does mirroring affect the reader’s perception?
A Different Perspective
If over‑friendliness can appear insincere in very formal contexts.