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“In his Petersburg world people were divided into two quite opposite sorts. One--the inferior sort: the paltry, stupid, and, above all, ridiculous people who believe that a husband should live with the one wife to whom he is married, that a girl should be pure, a woman modest, and a man, manly…” quote by Leo Tolstoy
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““In his Petersburg world people were divided into two quite opposite sorts. One--the inferior sort: the paltry, stupid, and, above all, ridiculous people who believe that a husband should live with the one wife to whom he is married, that a girl should be pure, a woman modest, and a man, manly, self controlled and firm; that one should bring up one's children to earn their living, should pay one's debts, and other nonsense of the kind. These were the old-fashioned and ridiculous people. But there was another sort of people: the real people to which all his set belonged, who had above all to be well-bred, generous, bold, gay, and to abandon themselves unblushingly to all their passions and laugh at everything else.””

Leo Tolstoy

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The passage contrasts rigid, conventional morality with a freer, more passionate lifestyle that embraces joy and authenticity.

In simple terms: It compares strict old‑fashioned values to a lively, indulgent way of living.

Key Takeaway

Choose authenticity over restrictive norms.

Themes

morality authenticity joy social norms individualism

Mood

reflective critical hopeful

Type

observational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • career choices
  • family expectations
  • social gatherings

Key Concepts

conformity passion self‑expression liberation

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you prioritize societal expectations or personal joy?
  • How can you balance responsibility with passion?
A Different Perspective

Rigid expectations can stifle personal growth and happiness.

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