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“But when, as is most often the case, the husband and wife accept the external obligation to live together all their lives and have, by the second month, come to loathe the sight of each other, want to get divorced and yet go on living together, it usually ends in that terrible hell that drives…” quote by Leo Tolstoy
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““But when, as is most often the case, the husband and wife accept the external obligation to live together all their lives and have, by the second month, come to loathe the sight of each other, want to get divorced and yet go on living together, it usually ends in that terrible hell that drives them to drink, makes them shoot themselves, kill and poison each other””

Leo Tolstoy

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The passage describes a marriage that deteriorates into mutual hatred, leading to destructive behaviors and tragic outcomes.

In simple terms: A loveless marriage can become a source of violence and despair.

Key Takeaway

Address relationship issues early to prevent escalation.

Themes

marriage conflict despair

Mood

somber cautionary

Type

literary reflective

When to use this quote

  • marital counseling
  • conflict resolution
  • mental health support

Key Concepts

psychological decay relationship dynamics self‑destruction

Questions to Reflect On

  • What signs indicate a marriage is becoming toxic?
  • How can couples seek help before reaching crisis?
A Different Perspective

The view is extreme and may not reflect all unhappy marriages.

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