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If we say I love you, it may be received with doubt, for…

“If we say I love you, it may be received with doubt, for there are times when it is hard to believe. Say I hate you, and the one spoken to believes it instantly, once for all. ... Love must be learned, and learned again and again; there is no end to it. Hate needs no instruction, but waits only to…” quote by Katherine Anne Porter
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“If we say I love you, it may be received with doubt, for there are times when it is hard to believe. Say I hate you, and the one spoken to believes it instantly, once for all. ... Love must be learned, and learned again and again; there is no end to it. Hate needs no instruction, but waits only to be provoked.”

Katherine Anne Porter

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Love requires continual learning and renewal, while hate is instinctual and needs only provocation to surface.

In simple terms: Love must be learned repeatedly; hate is instinctual.

Key Takeaway

Commit to learning love anew, and guard against provoking hate.

Themes

love hate learning instinct

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

philosophical practical

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • conflict resolution
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

philosophy emotional intelligence

Questions to Reflect On

  • What practices nurture lasting love?
  • How do you prevent hate from arising?
A Different Perspective

Hate can be triggered unintentionally.

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