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“In an argument, you may silence your opponent by pressing an advantage of strength or of wealth, or of education. But you do not really convince him. Though he is no longer saying anything, in his heart he still keeps to his opinion, the only way to make him change that opinion is to speak quietly…” quote by Kano Jigoro
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“In an argument, you may silence your opponent by pressing an advantage of strength or of wealth, or of education. But you do not really convince him. Though he is no longer saying anything, in his heart he still keeps to his opinion, the only way to make him change that opinion is to speak quietly and reasonably. When he understands that you are not trying to defeat him, but only to find the truth, he will listen to you and perhaps accept what you tell him.”

Kano Jigoro

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Forceful tactics may silence opposition but do not change beliefs; respectful dialogue can open minds to truth.

In simple terms: Dominance silences, reason convinces.

Key Takeaway

Speak calmly and seek shared understanding.

Themes

dialogue respect persuasion

Mood

calm inquisitive

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • debates
  • negotiations
  • teaching
  • leadership

Key Concepts

power dynamics psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you create a safe space for honest exchange?
  • What language fosters mutual respect?
A Different Perspective

Power alone rarely changes hearts.

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