Maybe I should become a COMPLETE ASSHOLE then I'd find…
“Maybe I should become a COMPLETE ASSHOLE then I'd find someone to date me.. I mean shit that's what ladies like nowadays, right? Ha... I'm overlooked, underestimated, and unappreciated. I guess women like jerks because they think deep down inside there's someone nice. I have a open mind, with a laid-back attitude, with a honest concern. I tell females how beautiful, gorgeous etc they are at the appropriate moments, because I know most girls need that litany of support. I always play by the rules in a game where the rules favor cheaters. I provide a shoulder to lean on, but restrain myself to tentative hugs. The nice guys finish last, never become more than friends, it's always oh, hes too nice to date or he would be a good boyfriend but hes not for me or he already puts up with so much from me, I couldnt possibly ask him out! or the most frustrating of all: no, it would ruin our friendship. Happiness and love is very hard to find in a world full of people who don't know what they want..”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Adopting a hostile persona may seem to attract attention, but genuine connection requires authenticity and mutual respect.
In simple terms: Being a jerk isn’t a sustainable dating strategy.
Key Takeaway
Seek authentic, respectful relationships.
Themes
relationships
self‑esteem
authenticity
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
advice
inspirational
When to use this quote
- dating
- friendship
- personal growth
Key Concepts
masculinity norms
social dynamics
self‑worth
Questions to Reflect On
- What values truly attract partners?
- How can you express confidence without compromising kindness?
A Different Perspective
Pretending to be a jerk can damage self‑image and trust.