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That night our new husbands took us quickly. They took us…

“That night our new husbands took us quickly. They took us calmly. They took us gently, but firmly, and without saying a word. They assumed we were the virgins the matchmakers had promised them we were and they took us with exquisite care. Now let me know if it hurts. They took us flat on our backs…” quote by Julie Otsuka
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““That night our new husbands took us quickly. They took us calmly. They took us gently, but firmly, and without saying a word. They assumed we were the virgins the matchmakers had promised them we were and they took us with exquisite care. Now let me know if it hurts. They took us flat on our backs on the bare floor of the Minute Motel. They took us downtown, in second-rate rooms at the Kumamoto Inn. They took us in the best hotels in San Francisco that a yellow man could set foot in at the time. The Kinokuniya Hotel. The Mikado. The Hotel Ogawa. They took us for granted and assumed we would do for them whatever it was we were told. Please turn toward the wall and drop down on your hands and knees (...) They took us violently, with their fists, whenever we tried to resist. They took us even though we bit them. They took us even though we hit them (...). They took us cautiously, as though they were afraid we might break. You’re so small. They took us coldly but knowledgeably — In 20 seconds you will lose all control — and we knew there had been many others before us. They took us as we stared up blankly at the ceiling and waited for it to be over, not realizing that it would not be over for years.””

Julie Otsuka

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Women are subjected to systemic violence and exploitation, stripped of agency, and forced into oppressive roles, highlighting the cruelty of patriarchal structures.

In simple terms: Women endure relentless oppression and abuse.

Key Takeaway

Acknowledge and resist systemic oppression.

Themes

gender oppression violence power dynamics colonialism human rights

Mood

angry somber determined

Type

political social activist

When to use this quote

  • historical oppression
  • immigrant experiences
  • domestic abuse
  • human trafficking
  • institutional violence

Key Concepts

patriarchy subjugation resilience survival silence

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can marginalized voices be amplified?
  • What steps can dismantle oppressive systems?
A Different Perspective

The narrative may generalize experiences, overlooking individual agency and resistance.

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