There's a famous expression that if you've met one person…
““There's a famous expression that if you've met one person with autism, then... you've met one person with autism. So you met me. Just me. Not a diagnosis. I realize I hurt you. I forgot to think about you first. I did not put myself in your shoes, as the expression goes. (Though as a sidebar, I think wearing other people's shoes is kind of disgusting; I'm only okay with the concept metaphorically.) So you know, you are all I think about.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
The speaker acknowledges each autistic person is unique, warns against assuming a single experience represents all, and expresses remorse for neglecting the other person's perspective.
In simple terms: Everyone with autism is different; don’t generalize.
Treat each person as an individual.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- therapy sessions
- team meetings
- educational settings
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you ensure you consider others first?
- What habits help you avoid making assumptions?
Assuming a single story can still lead to stereotyping.