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“It's a dirty little secret that most New Yorkers are pleasant, thoughtful, patient, and polite. The Chamber of Commerce must work overtime to maintain the surly, off-putting image that is widely believed to define the city. In truth, niceness is nearly epidemic in this town.” quote by Judith Kelman
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“It's a dirty little secret that most New Yorkers are pleasant, thoughtful, patient, and polite. The Chamber of Commerce must work overtime to maintain the surly, off-putting image that is widely believed to define the city. In truth, niceness is nearly epidemic in this town.”

Judith Kelman

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Contrary to its harsh reputation, New York City is largely inhabited by courteous, thoughtful people, and the negative stereotype is perpetuated by external narratives.

In simple terms: NYC’s reputation for rudeness is a myth; kindness is common.

Key Takeaway

Stereotypes can mask everyday civility.

Themes

urban culture stereotypes social behavior perception

Mood

reflective optimistic

Type

observational sociological

When to use this quote

  • tourist interactions
  • customer service training
  • media portrayals of cities

Key Concepts

social narrative formation collective identity

Practical Applications

  • highlight positive local stories in media
  • encourage community‑building events

Questions to Reflect On

  • What mechanisms sustain negative city stereotypes?
  • How can residents actively reshape external perceptions?
A Different Perspective

The quote may overlook genuine frustrations experienced by residents and visitors.

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